The causes of divorce (cause-effect essay)

Have you noticed that nowadays there are more divorces than in the past? It is because sometimes the couple takes a quickly decision before having a different life. There are three main causes of divorces: lack of communication, changing woman’s roles and young marriages.

The lack of communication is a common problem in the daily life. Unfortunately there are problems that avoid communication between the couple. Such as the job of both, sometimes the couple needs to work for having a better life. But the schedule is different and maybe the woman works in the morning and the man in the afternoon. Since the time that they live together is not enough, the couple cannot interchange their ideas; neither there is a confidence for trying to solve their problems. As a result, they get divorced.

The second important cause of divorces is the changing of women’s roles. In the past men had to earn money to afford the expenses of the family, and women only had to do the housework and she depended their husband. Nowadays this situation has changed, because of the equality between men and women, their roles are very similar, for example they share the roles such as cooking, cleaning. Washing, carrying the children and money. The last one is a clear example that women are independent because sometimes they have a better job for supporting their own living cost. Nevertheless, there are men that don’t want to accept the equality between men and women, furthermore many men are “machetes”, and as a result they argue with their working wives and have problems that take them to the divorce.

Some young couples make the decision to get married when they are not prepared for supporting a marriage. Therefore, they have problems since the beginning such as economic, emotional and of experience. The couple doesn’t know how to solve the problems, and they have frequent arguments. In addition, a lot of times for avoiding problems, they conclude that is better to finish the relationship.

To conclude, before getting marriage, we have to think about all the things that imply being married. The cause of divorce is lamentable and we should try to consider them, for having a good relationship and avoid falling in the marriage.